A few days ago I wrote about the modern paradox of sex/slut shaming of women in our new reality of secular puritanism and so I wanted to elaborate on it from personal experience. But first I want to ask...... What are we told to be ashamed of? Ashamed of Sex? Wanting Sex? Having Sex? Well guess what if we did or want all those things we are HUMAN and there is no shame in humanity...…..Yet Oh then of course lets go with the kink shaming. So you want to shame a person for having kinks and fetishes? Well guess what ? If you've lived a life you have kinks and fetishes. Our kinks and fetishes are more often than not abstract reflections and reactions to things in our formative years. Oh NO !!! How dare we have a life that affected us in our formative years ? And finally back to personal experiences and being me. I'm a model/artist/designer and my entire artistic reality is one of erotica aka SEX . I enjoy it. I fucking LOVE IT ! I actually enjoy the nudity, the sexuality, the